Disabled Vets' "Free Meal" to be shut down May 1st

[Betty Boop]

In error, I did not give the URL for the actual story that accompanied the piece and as such the Moderator of this site removed the initial thread, so here's the story from November followed by the situation and the contact persons if you believe this is worthwhile for a returning now disabled veteran to re-acclimate to life stateside after injury or maiming in Afghanistan or Iraq:

http://www.capitolhillblue.com/artma...7615.shtmlFrom Capitol Hill Blue

America at War
Heaven for Wounded Vets
By LISA HOFFMAN
Nov 4, 2005, 07:41


There are 20 steps from the street to the steak house, which might seem no small matter for young veterans who have lost their legs to war.
But the stairs that lead down to Fran O'Brien's Stadium Steak House are not just another obstacle to the hundreds of GIs severely wounded in Iraq and Afghanistan who have labored up and down them over the past two years.
Instead, for those whose future plans exploded the moment they were maimed, the steps _ and the landmark restaurant they lead to _ are a welcome-mat back to normal life.
"My first dinner was the first time I felt like I was home," is the way Sgt. Steve Clark, who lost his arm to Iraq combat, describes the experience.
Virtually every Friday evening since 2003, the upscale restaurant three blocks from the White House has opened its doors to the young vets who are patients at Walter Reed Army Medical Center and the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, Md.
In a restaurant where a T-bone goes for $30 a pop, each recuperating vet gets a full-course feast, plus whatever libations they choose, for free.
While a thick steak is ambrosia to those who have lived on institutional food for months, it is the atmosphere as much as the food that feeds the 50 or so troops and family members who partake each week.
Fran's is a haven for those young men, in the prime of life, who are self-conscious about their missing limbs, disfigured faces and other battle scars. Here, in a private banquet room, the wounded gather with their bandages, casts, crutches and still-clumsy prosthetics.
There they find camaraderie, mutual support and, commonly, a lot of laughs. It's a night out like they enjoyed before they went to war. No one stares at them and no one will let them sink into self pity, said Staff Sgt. Joshua Olson, now 26, who lost his right leg up to the hip two years ago when an enemy rocket hit his truck in Tal Afar, Iraq.
"You have to decide if you're going to lay in bed or get up and live," said Olson, who remains in the Army, where he's on the service's competitive shooting team. His goal now? The Summer Olympics.
Olson says going to Fran's is a therapeutic exercise in resuming a normal life. Boarding the bus that takes the vets to the restaurant, negotiating the stairs and a crowded restaurant, using a regular restroom, and, for some, eating one-handed or with prosthetics _ all are part of the rehabilitation process, according to doctors and others who help guide these troops back to the real world.
And for those whose spirits are dulled by depression and pain, or the monotony of months of slow recovery, Steak Night is often the only thing they have to look forward to each week. Hal Koster, a co-owner of Fran's, says one patient with a traumatic brain injury would leave his Walter Reed room voluntarily only to go to the restaurant. Over time, Koster said, the vet came back to life.
A bear-like, big-hearted man who did three tours in Vietnam on a helicopter gunship, Koster, 59, wants no publicity for his efforts and shrugs off questions of how much it has cost him and co-owner Marty O'Brien, son of the famous Washington Redskin who opened the restaurant. But extrapolating from the menu, the bill for each Steak Night can be close to $3,000.
The two absorbed the full cost for the first several months, but now it is covered at least in part by donations drummed up by the Jewish Institute for National Security Affairs, the Help Our Heroes Foundation, the American Legion and other veterans service organizations. The Disabled American Veterans provides the bus.
Koster credits fellow Vietnam vet and longtime Fran's patron Jim Mayer with conceiving the dinners. A double-amputee himself, Mayer is a "peer counselor" at Walter Reed, where he cajoles, teases and comforts those newly limbless who think life is over. A natural comedian, Mayer's been known to skip down the hospital halls on his prosthetic legs to make his point that it isn't.
Both Mayer and Koster said their purpose is a simple one: to ensure that these kids are treated better than they were when they came home from Vietnam. Ask any of the dozens of vet alums who gathered recently at Fran's for a two-year anniversary celebration and they'll tell you, emphatically, that it has been a godsend.
"It's the greatest thing. It lets you be normal," said Cpl. Bobby Isaacs, 24, who lost one entire leg and the other one below the knee after an ambush in Mosul, Iraq. After 39 surgeries, he's now an outpatient in North Carolina, but said he wouldn't have missed the reunion at Fran's for the world. With him he brought his fiancee, a prosthetics technician he met during his rehabilitation.
Attending as well were several Iraqi-Americans who came to thank the troops for their sacrifices. So did Debra Burlingame, sister of the pilot of the jetliner crashed by hijackers into the Pentagon on Sept. 11. With her was John Vigiano, a retired New York City firefighter whose two sons, one a firefighter and the other a police officer, died at the World Trade Center.
In return, the GIs thanked everyone who helped them during recuperation. Staff Sgt. Chris Bain, a father of three whose arms were left useless after a mortar attack, said he had particular appreciation for John Sommer, executive director of the American Legion and a Vietnam vet. Sommer and his wife had "adopted" Bain and other wounded vets, and brought them to his suburban Washington home for afternoons of brats, beer and football.
Former deputy defense secretary Paul Wolfowitz drew the biggest applause and cheers from the troops that night. Now head of the World Bank, Wolfowitz showed up at Fran's Friday after Friday during his term, often spending three hours so he could talk to each vet individually and helping to cut through Pentagon and VA bureaucratic bogs the troops sometimes found themselves in.
Though Wolfowitz is reviled by those against the Iraq war for his role in precipitating it, he is a hero to these troops who _ to a man or woman _ not only continue to support the U.S. mission but say they would sign up to fight all over again if they could. "In a heartbeat," Sgt. Olson said.
(Contact Lisa Hoffman at HoffmanL(at)shns.com)
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Included with this was a letter of concern, verified, that the Restaurant that has been providing these meals for the wounded vet for free on Friday nights was about to be closed down.

Please take a look at the following, from the exact same reporter (Lisa Hoffman of Capitol Hill Blue) as the story above, and see if this is something that you feel is worthy of an e-mail or phone call to the Capitol Hilton with appropriate links and e-mail addresses cited - I personally do believe it is:

Contact: Lisa Hoffman at HoffmanL(at)shns.com

Don't know if you're familiar with Fran O'Brien's Steakhouse Restaurant in Washington, which has invited wounded troops from Walter Reed and Bethesda to free Friday night dinners for nearly three years. The dinners are the highlight of the lives of these troops, both for the evening out and for the camaraderie they find there. One of the owners of the restaurant, Hal Koster, is a Vietnam vet who is determined to brighten the lives of these kids.

Now, the restaurant is about to lose its lease, apparently because Hilton Hotels is worried about their liability, or some such concern. (The restaurant is in the basement of the Capitol Hilton.)

There is an effort underway to change the company's mind on this, and I thought your group might be interested in this battle. Below is a copy of my story on the dinners at Fran's, as well as the email from the folks who are fighting to save the restaurant. I plan to do a story next week on the battle.

Folks,

Marty and Hal need our help. For over six months they have been asking the Hilton Management for the terms for renewal of their lease. For over 5 months they were told not to worry they would have the renewal lease in a few weeks. About a month ago the Hilton folks stopped responding to their emails and voice messages for a status report and last week Hal and Marty received a one page eviction notice. No explanation was given.

We suspect that at least part of the reason is the Friday night dinner Hal and Marty have been hosting for the last two and a half years.

It may be that the Hilton folks are concerned about the increased liability of having so many severely injured and disabled soldiers in their basement each Friday (several have taken falls on the step stairs at the entrance to Fran's (but no law suits or problems have ensued).

It may be that there is very limited and problematic wheelchair access to the restaurant (although no ADA complaints have been filed).

The truth is that we don't know for sure but what we do know is that this is unfair. Unless we can change the minds of the folks at the Hilton Hotel Fran's will be out of business on May 1st and we will not have any place to hold our Friday night dinner for the injured soldiers and Marines of Walter Reed and Bethesda Naval Hospitals.

If you are so inclined I would like to ask you to call and/or email the following two officials at the Hilton and voice your support for Hal and Marty and express your concern for the reasoning behind this seemingly arbitrary decision.

Please call them tomorrow or Friday and feel free to share this with anyone else who might be willing to call.

Dan Boyle (212) 838-1558
daniel_a_boyle@hilton.com

Brian Kellaher (202) 393-1000
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HILTON CONTACT INFORMATION

http://www.hilton.com/en/hi/customersupport/index.jhtml;jsessionid=QQE
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EMAIL HILTON HOTELS AT:
http://www.hilton.com/en/hi/feedback/index.jhtml;jsessionid=QQE0SFKSWV
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I trust this is in compliance with the site rules now. This may not be much but it beats nothing for men and women who have risked it all and have now returned no longer physically 100%.

[Snowden]

Good girl, Cal! I knew you could do that. It's an interesting story. Thanks for being so sweet about it and so prompt!

[Bluehawk]

I wouldn't have had any trouble believing a story like that even without the URL...

I hope they get a reprieve and that Hilton Hotels finds out where they put their heart.

[conlor]

It would be a shame to close this to the veterans. If it is, I hope someone comes up with another place they can go.

The Hiltons really shouldn't worry about liablility. It's not only military people who lose limbs and have trouble getting around.

[JudyLynne]

interesting post and it would be a shame to close this to the Veterans

[Betty Boop]

It bites - and you are so right that not only disabled veterans are disabled. As it was a very long initial post, I am just recapturing a portion of the last part with contacts e-mails and/or phone numbers for the Hilton.

If you are so inclined I would like to ask you to call and/or email the following two officials at the Hilton and voice your support for Hal and Marty and express your concern for the reasoning behind this seemingly arbitrary decision.

Please call them tomorrow or Friday and feel free to share this with anyone else who might be willing to call.

Dan Boyle (212) 838-1558
daniel_a_boyle@hilton.com

Brian Kellaher (202) 393-1000
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HILTON CONTACT INFORMATION

http://www.hilton.com/en/hi/customersupport/index.jhtml;jsessionid=QQE
0SFKSWVB5YCSGBIVMVCQKIYFC3UUC

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EMAIL HILTON HOTELS AT:
http://www.hilton.com/en/hi/feedback/index.jhtml;jsessionid=QQE0SFKSWV
B5YCSGBIVMVCQKIYFC3UUC
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In my note/e-mail I commented that I believed that keeping Fran O'Brien's Steakhouse OPEN was a very small thing that a very large corporation such as the Hilton could/should do for those men and women who have laid it all on the line so the Hilton corporation could have a business. If you feel this is WRONG, then please use the contacts and spread the word to any and all who support our men and women in uniform.

[las47032]

A Washington, D.C., restaurant that has been serving free steak dinners to disabled veterans recovering at nearby military hospitals is scheduled to be closed at the end of this month after its host hotel, the Capitol Hilton, enforces the termination of its lease.

Each Friday for three years, Fran O'Brien's Stadium Steakhouse, located just three blocks from the White House, hosts veterans and their families –– and the cost is picked up by its owners, Marty O'Brien and Hal Koster, a Vietnam veteran. The service personnel come from Walter Reed Army Medical Center and the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, Md.

E-mails circulating on the Internet indicate Hilton is ousting O'Brien's due to liability concerns of having so many disabled people on the premises, some of whom descend the stairs to the basement restaurant, but the hotel denies that has anything to do with the ending of the lease.

"The Capitol Hilton elected to terminate the lease, but that had absolutely nothing to do with the Friday night dinners," Lisa Cole, regional director of communications for Hilton, told WND. "It was strictly a business decision."

The restaurant's lease, which was extended for six months last year, is set to expire as of May 1.
Cole says the hotel's general manager, Brian Kellaher, has "reached out" to Walter Reed, hoping to work out a way to host the dinner at another location in the hotel.

"We're in discussion with the Walter Reed group …… to see if we can't make this work for the future," the spokeswoman said.

Cole would not say specifically why the lease was terminated or what the hotel will do with the space after April.

"We don't have anything that we're definitely going to do with the space," she said.
Koster served in Vietnam as a helicopter door-gunner in the 174th Assault Helicopter Company from 1967 to 1969.

"I have been to several of the dinners, and it is absolutely wonderful what Hal has been doing at significant effort and personal expense (every dollar he spends on our veterans could be money he puts in his pocket)," wrote Jim McDaniel, webmaster for the 174th AHC, in an e-mail soliciting help to keep the restaurant open. "You really have to be at one of these dinners to fully appreciate what this means to these soldiers."

Writes columnist Lisa Hoffman: "Koster credits fellow Vietnam vet and longtime Fran's patron Jim Mayer with conceiving the dinners. A double-amputee himself, Mayer is a 'peer counselor' at Walter Reed, where he cajoles, teases and comforts those newly limbless who think life is over. ……

"Both Mayer and Koster said their purpose is a simple one: to ensure that these kids are treated better than they were when they came home from Vietnam."

Staff Sgt. Larry Gill, 43, an Army reservist from Alabama who suffered a severe leg injury in a grenade attack, is one of the vets who has enjoyed Koster's hospitality.

"Some of the regulars will get up and give us their chairs when we come in," Gill told the Washington Post about his visits to the restaurants.

Those circulating e-mails about the lease termination encourage readers to contact Hilton on behalf of Koster and the restaurant.

Writes McDaniel: "Call or write to Hilton NOW. Let them know how you feel."
Those circulating e-mails about the lease termination encourage readers to contact Hilton on behalf of Koster and the restaurant.